i am dehydrating! How the HELL can i dehydrate when i am on a liquid diet?!
Brat had a crappy evening and got in to a fight with her ex. She kept saying that when he makes a promise she expects him to keep it. Like she keep promises. oh, well, we all goof sometimes. She was all over me as an outlet though, and i do NOT deal well with that. She was trying to tell me how to raise my child. She has no children. She is the same person who taught Roni how to say, "Suck it!" My child does just fine in social situation, is respectful and bright. She is by no means perfect, but i wouldn't want her to be. Who would? And if i want to take her to a clean, safe, tattoo parlor at 1 AM on a Friday night, who is she to judge me? The good news is that M&D did not jump right on me too when she tried to make them. These guys are great.
- You may be at risk if:
- you are a mammal of either gender, though females are the actual carriers.
you have an active, hetero sex life
you do not want to settle down and start a family
They call this "PREGNANCY" and you CAN STOP IT! There is not many legal cures, but there is a PREVENTION! It's called BIRTH CONTROL! WOW! Do you need help? go to a few sites like this or this and make some calls. There are so many forms and they work remarkably well when you use them correctly, so READ UP! Otherwise, you may be reading Lamaz booklets.
The biggest problem i have are with women who never wanted to be moms and just really suck at it because they just don't care. And they resent this baby for ruining their life. Too many have it, it's theirs, and they WON'T give it up, but they will abuse it, kill it accidentally one day, or lock themselves into a horrible and unhappy marriage, subjecting this child to a life time to witness the fights, yelling, adultry, and making up giving it a screwed idea of with love is. Would you want to be somewhere when everyone there HATES you? Me either. Research teen prostitution, homelessness, addiction, and gangs for a start. Ask then just how many of them had some REAL issues at home. How you feel affects your decisions. Your surroundings and environment affect your feelings. Add it up.
Parenthood is not a game. Sure, your parents may raise that child for you, but how good did they do the first time? He will prolly not stay with you forever just because you got pregnant. Chances are you'll divorce and, trust me, it's not easy or pretty.
Children are not toys or pets. Think of it as the future of the world that woman microwaved to death on 'accident'. Or specifically, a future president some guy threw in the deep fryer at work because the baby was hungry & crying. Or the Brothers that would have cured cancer and the common cold that were strapped in their car seats as the car sank in the river.
It is NOT worth the few moments of high drama and tears, the break up and recrininations and make up the day before you finally get your week late period. Don't fuck with Mother Nature, she'll kick you ass in ways you never could imagine. And if you have nothing besides life to give to your child, find a good couple who CAN and WILL provide a good life for your baby. You gave it life, now give it a chance.
Thank you for listening to me rant for a moment. i have met some cool kids scarred in so many ways by parents who just don't care. i knew a little boy who's mom is only his mom when she feels like playing one for a while, then she skips back out to party and do smack. The last man she had was willing to do anything for her and her son ~ LOVED them both and got her clean, made a home and finally her son had someone he was proud to call 'Dad'. The day after he proposed to her, she skipped. dropped her son off with her parents and ran. She didn't even know who his father was. She has been seen out at the clubs with the same crowd as before. the guys before him abused the boy in every way. EVERY way. i know another girl who never uses birth control so she can enact the same drama every time she is late. Pathetic. It just hits a nerve. i was a mistake. i am screwed up for the things i had to go through. Brat was planned. She is so fucking normal she frightenes me. My daughter was not planned but i was not supposed to ever be able to have children, so she is a miracle. Nothing less than a miracle.
The only thing that ever made sense to me
Is the words to a song from an american movie
The only thing that ever made sense in my life
Is the sound of my little girl laughing
Through the window of a summer night
I sit alone in the back yard
Wish that I could be inside
Just the sound of my little girl laughing
Makes me happy just to be alive
Makes me happy just to be alive
Makes me happy just to be alive
Makes me happy just to be alive
"Song From An American Movie" by Everclear
confessed on 2000-12-19